Gentle guidance for lasting memorials.
We serve St. Louis, St. Charles, Lincoln, Warren, and Jefferson Counties.
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Compassionate guidance for choosing a lasting memorial
Gateway Family Monument Company was founded by a local St. Louis family and proudly serves families with compassion, craftsmanship, and attention to detail.
Choosing a memorial is an important decision. Our compassionate team guides families through every step, creating personalized tributes that honor loved ones with dignity and care.
Families choose Gateway Family Monument Company for personal service, quality craftsmanship, and memorials delivered with care and timeliness.
We serve St. Louis, St. Charles, Lincoln, Warren, and Jefferson Counties.
Honoring Memories That Last Forever
Our mission is to gently guide families through one of life’s most difficult moments, helping them create a meaningful and lasting tribute that honors their loved one with dignity, care, and compassion.
Personalized memorial designs
Cemetery assistance and guidance
In-home consultations available
“We treat every family as if they were our own.”
Why families choose Gateway
Gentle, local, and deeply personal
We understand that selecting a headstone is not a simple purchase—it is a tender, emotional decision.
Our family walks alongside yours with patience, clear answers, and respect for your loved one and your budget.
Family‑owned, not corporate
You work directly with our family, not a call center. We know the local cemeteries, caretakers, and their requirements, and we care about the stories behind every memorial we design.
We handle cemetery approval
Every cemetery has its own rules for size, style, and installation. We communicate directly with your cemetery, prepare drawings, and make sure everything is approved before your stone is crafted.
Calm, step‑by‑step guidance
From first phone call to installation, we explain each step in plain language—timelines, options, and costs—so there are no surprises and you can move at a comfortable pace.
The Kagan Family and Jana Harper, General Manager
Lenny Kagan is the owner of Gateway Family Monument Company and works personally with each family to help them create a meaningful and lasting tribute for their loved one. As a local St. Louis–area business owner, Lenny believes a memorial is far more than a marker — it is a permanent reflection of a life and a family’s memories. He takes time to guide families through cemetery requirements, design decisions, and personalization options so they feel comfortable and confident throughout the process. His goal is simple: to make a difficult time a little easier by providing honest guidance, compassionate service, and a memorial families can be proud of for generations.
A clear, gentle process
From first call to installation,
we walk beside you.
You don't need to know anything about monuments when you call us. We gently learn about your loved one, your cemetery, and your wishes, then outline a simple plan together.
Or, if it's easier right now, request a quiet in‑home visit and we'll come to you.
How it works
1. A calm conversation
We begin with a phone call or in‑person meeting to gently listen and learn about your loved one, your cemetery, and any ideas you may already have.
2. Thoughtful design & options
We present material, color, and shape options that match your cemetery's guidelines and your budget, then create a personalized layout with wording, artwork, and emblems if desired.
3. Cemetery approval made simple
We prepare drawings, submit them to your cemetery, and work directly with them on any revisions, so you never have to chase paperwork or approvals.
4. Crafting & installation
Your monument is professionally carved and engraved, then installed at the cemetery by our experienced team with care, precision, and respect for the grounds.
5. Ongoing support
If you need added lettering in the future or have any questions about care and cleaning, we're here to help.
Types of monuments we create
Personalized headstones and memorials for every story
Whether you prefer something traditional and timeless or simple and understated, we help you choose a memorial that feels right, within the guidelines of your cemetery.
Not sure where to begin?
Many families come to us with only a few ideas—or none at all. That's perfectly okay. We will show you gentle examples and help you narrow down what feels right.
Upright monuments
Traditional standing headstones in a variety of shapes, granite colors, and personalized designs for individuals or companion memorials.
Flat markers
Low‑profile granite or bronze markers that sit flush with the ground, often required in specific cemetery sections.
Slants & bevels
Gently raised monuments that sit on or above a base, offering more visibility while remaining modest and refined.
Family & estate memorials
Larger monuments designed to honor multiple family members, with room for future names and inscriptions.
Common questions, gentle answers
We’re here to guide,
not to rush you.
If you have a question that isn’t answered here, please call us. A quick, caring conversation is often the easiest way to feel more at ease.
Call (314) 913-9990
Weekdays 9am–5pm • Evening and weekend appointments available by request.
How soon do we need to choose a headstone?
There is no single “right” time. Some families call us within a few weeks, others take many months or longer. Cemeteries may have specific guidelines about when installation can occur, but you are never behind. When you feel ready to talk, we will meet you there.
What do we need before we call you?
Very little. If you know the cemetery name and the section or plot, that is helpful—but not required. We can look up many details on your behalf. Photos or examples of stones you like are welcome, but not necessary.
Do you work with our specific cemetery?
We regularly work with cemeteries across St. Louis and St. Charles County and are familiar with their guidelines. If we haven’t worked with your cemetery before, we’ll contact them directly to learn their requirements and handle approvals for you.
Can you meet us at our home or at the cemetery?
Yes. Many families prefer a quiet in‑home visit, and others find it helpful to walk the cemetery together. We offer both, based on what feels most comfortable and convenient for you.
What does a typical monument cost?
Costs vary based on size, material, and cemetery requirements. During a free consultation, we provide clear, written estimates with no obligation. We work carefully within your budget and explain options that may save cost without sacrificing craftsmanship.
Take the next gentle step
A brief conversation can answer many questions and bring a sense of relief. There is no obligation and no rush—simply a calm space to talk through options.
Call now: (314) 913-9990
If this moment feels too tender for a phone call, you can quietly share a few details and we will reach out at a time that suits you.
- Free, no‑obligation consultation
- In‑home, office, or cemetery‑side meetings
- Evening and weekend times available
Gateway Family Monument Company
Serving families across St. Louis and St. Charles County, Lincoln, Warren and Jefferson Counties with compassionate guidance for headstones, markers, and memorials.
Phone: (314) 913-9990
Email: [email protected]
Office (by appointment):
1850 East Pitman Ave., Suite M
Wentzville, MO 63385
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